July 11, 2023

Hi Tina,

This week's article hits home for me. Read about my struggle to move forward and how I overcame it under the upcoming events section below.

To your success,

Tina Asher
Business/Career Coach • Trainer • Author
Build U Up Consulting


What Holds You Back From Moving Forward?

Have you ever just felt stuck in your life? As if you are going around and around in a circle and you can't seem to break out? This could be because something in your life is holding you back from moving forward.

1. You’re Too Safe 
If you are constantly worried about the future, and this worry keeps you from taking risks, this is probably the number one reason you aren't moving forward. To move forward, you’ll have to do something that makes you a little uncomfortable - take the first step.

Next time you are faced with something that takes you out of your comfort zone, give it a try—you may find a little risk is a positive addition to your life.

2. You’re Stuck On The Past 
To move forward, you have to learn to let go. The past is the past for a reason. Remember it fondly, but make sure you aren't focused on it or devoting any time to it, as this will keep you from being able to propel yourself forward into the future.

3. You Doubt Your Abilities 
If you want to make changes to better your life or move forward, you can't do so if you constantly doubt yourself. Taking action builds confidence. Just deciding to move forward is a big step, and only the most successful people do so. If confidence is something you struggle with, consider finding a mentor or a coach to help you take the first step.

4. You’re Hanging With The Wrong Crowd 
Are all your friends stuck in dead-end jobs? Do they complain about how miserable they are? According to Jim Rohn, you are the combination of the five people you’re closest to in life. And if these people aren't going anywhere, you likely won't either.

Be especially careful if you find yourself spending time with people who seem to talk down about your future, don’t let their negative outlook become yours, as this could end up holding you back.

If you’re feeling held back by outside influences, start making small changes right away.  It won’t be easy at first, but when your inspired vision is stronger than your fear of change, you’ll take the required action to move forward. As one of my coaches shared with me, inspired action trumps required action every time.  After all, moving forward is part of being successful and having a happy life, so embrace the journey and take the first step.

Want help? Click here to schedule your confidential strategy call and take the next step. 

Recommended Reading

***Please save the date***

I am blessed to be an author in “INTENTION: Deconstructing G.R.I.T. Collection” releasing July 26th! The 40 #female authors share #inspiring stories of how they listen to their own internal compass, focus on #positive habits, and lead life with #purpose.

During the first 24-48 hours of the launch, we will be offering it for the super special rate of $1.99…so mark the date on your calendar and watch for my posts with the link to get this special rate!

I am so very thankful to be on this journey with these inspiring women.

Upcoming Event

If I’m honest, this took me way out of my comfort zone.  

I’ve been resisting doing videos for a long time. It finally dawned on me after talking with one of my coaches that I’m withholding valuable insights that could help someone move forward in their life. Why would I do that?  

So, I hired a coach to help me launch my YouTube channel. I’m excited to announce that my YouTube Channel is live! My goal is to get at least 100 subscribers in the next two months.  Will you help me by subscribing to my channel?  I’ll keep you posted on my progress, and if you like what you hear, then please share it with someone who might also be interested.  

I appreciate you being part of my community. 


Helpful Resources

Managers & Leaders: Download this free guide to discover where you might be out of balance so you can become a better boss. 

Connect with Me: Click here to schedule a complimentary Strategy Session to chat about how I can help you better communicate with and develop your team and build you up for success. 

Tina Asher
Career Coach • Trainer • Author

With 20+ years in leading, training, sales management, and coaching, Tina Asher brings a broad skillset to helping busy professionals elevate their success. She holds certifications with one of the world's leading sources for science-based, validated assessment and coaching tools. Tina is passionate about serving others to reach their full potential while balancing a full and productive life.

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