March 19, 2020

Hello Tina,

Can you believe it? The first quarter is almost gone. Are you on pace with your expectations for the year or do you feel like you’re running a race with no end? With the uncertainty of what our new normal will become during the coronavirus epidemic, the saying “time is precious” couldn’t be more accurate.

This is my birthday month and as much as I try to stop it each year I can’t. What I’ve realized is that each new “birth” year opens up opportunities to appreciate the time I have on earth. So this year I’ll be better than last year at being present with others and appreciating the blessings that are right in front of me. These are the things I don’t have to plan for, strive to achieve or get a result from. I just get to be me and be still for what is present. Check out my article this month for helpful tips on how to make more time by taking time.

Be safe, stay healthy, and just be present —


Tina Asher
Business/Career Coach • Trainer • Facilitator
Build U Up Consulting


To Make Time, Take Time

If time were an animal, it would be on the endangered species list. At least that’s how it seems: Too much to do, too many places to be, too little time to do it all.

On the job, in school, at home, we are increasingly imprisoned by the perception that time is a scarce and limited resource. We rush from one commitment or activity to another and believe that we haven’t a minute to spare. We yearn for more time, yet we often feel anxious and guilty when idle.

Is this how life is supposed to be?

No! Nor does it have to be.

But until we change our relationship to time, our lives will continue to speed away from us—at enormous cost to our health and to direct experience of ourselves and the world around us.

“There is no issue, no aspect of human life, that exceeds this in importance,” says Jacob Needleman, author of Time and the Soul. “The destruction of time is literally the destruction of life.”

When we learn to shift time, our relationships become more rewarding, our time spent alone is richer, our aging is more satisfying, our work is more fruitful and our stress and anxiety are less paralyzing, or even nonexistent.

To allow time to “breathe” more in your life, try some or all of the following suggestions from Stephan Rechtschaffen, author of Timeshifting, as well as others. See if your reservoir of time starts to refill.

Pause. Buddhist monk Thich Nhat Han suggests taking a deep breath before answering the phone. Other conscious pauses throughout the day—a moment of silence before each meal, sitting in the car a few minutes before entering the house after work—help us to “come home” to ourselves.

Carve out idle time alone. Greek philosopher Aristotle noted that “nature requires us not only to be able to work well but also to idle well.” Just because you’re not doing anything doesn’t mean that nothing’s getting done!

Live as fully as possible in the present moment. When we leave behind thoughts of the past or future, we can experience time more peacefully, says Eckhart Tolle, author of The Power of Now.

Toss your schedule whenever you can. Even better, schedule spontaneous time and then surprise yourself.

Examine underlying reasons for your busyness. What emotions would you experience if you weren’t so busy? What would you wish for? Emotional work is challenging but essential if we are to stop running from our hearts.

Play. Whether you sing, wrestle, paint, shake your bootie—whatever—play helps us to step outside of ordinary time.

Create time retreats. Once a year or so, choose to do something for a week or more that allows you to shift into a different rhythm—something where you can just “be” without the need for doing anything.

Spend time in nature. We can’t help but slow down in nature’s unhurried pace. Watching a soaring bird or examining a flower can seem to stretch a minute into an hour.

We can learn to experience time more purposefully and meaningfully—so that it’s not an enemy robbing us of the joy of life. We needn’t be at time’s mercy. When we change our awareness, we can actually experience the gifts of time.

Author’s content used under license, © Claire Communications


Recommended Reading ...

Own Your Time: Professional Time-Management Strategies for a Profitable and Balanced Life by Stephanie Wachman

I love this book because it’s a simple quick read (because who has time to read, right?) with some strategies to help you gain some sanity back. I think you’ll find it helpful too! One recommendation I’ve found useful is putting aside designated time each day for strategic thinking. Uninterrupted time to work on results I seek to accomplish.


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Tina Asher
Career Coach • Trainer • Facilitator

With 20+ years in leading, training, sales management, and coaching, Tina Asher brings a broad skillset to helping busy professionals elevate their success. She holds certifications with one of the world's leading sources for science-based, validated assessment and coaching tools. Tina is passionate about serving others to reach their full potential while balancing a full and productive life.


   

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